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Many single women ask me how I went from the first date to marriage in 6 months. All of them want to get married and fast!

I get tired of always hearing the same excuses from single women; “I’m good-looking and smart, but still single?!” “How come she got married and I’m not?” “There are no good men left”.

What did I do that worked? I don’t know.

Unfortunately, I don’t have a magic spell that can help you. But I can give you some tips that for sure will help you raise your chances of meeting the love of your life.

Keep the faith

Researchers have shown that believing in God is good for you, makes you healthier and happier, and helps you live longer. Believe in something! Believe in God, Buddha, or anything that can make you stronger. It would help if you believed in yourself that something good would happen.

Positive thinking

Or in other words, “always look on the bright side of life.”

Positive thinking is a mental and emotional attitude that focuses on the bright side of life and expects positive results. A positive person anticipates happiness, health, and success and believes they can overcome any obstacle and difficulty.

Practice positive thinking with the image of your perfect life with your husband. How does your day look like? Describe it in your mind with as many details as you can. Who is your future husband? Imagine him not by his looks but by his character. Does he treat you right? Do you have a good life together? Are you happy?

Live your life

Instead of sitting at home and crying, live life and live it BIG!

Go out as much as you can, and party hard! Try new adventures, travel to new and exotic places, and try a new hobby. Don’t wait for a partner to experience all your dreams. Remember, if you have a complete life, you have no time to feel sorry for yourself!

Spread the word

Let me tell you a true story about me. Once I went out with Lora, my friend, we had a few drinks and met Guy, a good friend of mine. Guy immediately asked Lora if she was single and wanted to meet someone; of course, I was super offended. Why he didn’t ask me if I wanted to meet someone? He knew that I was single as well. When I asked why he did not introduce me to anyone, he answered, “I did not know you were looking for someone.”

Sometimes, you must shout your dreams so people know you need help. The best way to know someone is by a friend (that’s how I met my hubby). Don’t be shy – spread the word that you are single and what kind of a man you seek.

Be a better you on the inside.

Ready to hear brutally honest feedback? Let’s try something: ask 5 of your male friends and 5 of your female friends why they think you are still single. Ask them to be honest and be ready to hear some harsh things. I’m sure that your friends really love you and want you to be happy.

Your friends will be able to tell you exactly what features you need to change or what is wrong with the way you behave around men; in that way, you will learn what kind of mistakes you are making, and you will be able to fix it either alone or with the help of a psychologist.

Be a better you on the outside.

When was the last time you did your nails? Try a new haircut? Now is the time to refresh your look. Try a new makeup/hairstyle, buy sexy outfits, and go out to show around!

You know that first impression is everything. You want to look at your best when you meet the one.

Active active active

Don’t wait for opportunities to fall into your lap. Be active about getting to know your man, and it means start work on it. Sign up for any dating website or app. Search for parties for singles, cooking classes, or trips. Go to all Places crowded with men, such as football and basketball games, and work out at the gym as long as you surround yourself with single men all day!

kiss 100 frogs

You must go out with at least 100 men to meet the one. It’s all about the statistics, raising your chances of meeting someone. Don’t say no to any offer; in the worst case, you wasted an hour drinking coffee; in the best case, you met your love.

A little more than a monkey is enough!

A famous writer once wrote that a man should not be beautiful; a little more than a monkey is enough. So, forget all your dreams and fairy tales about Prince Charming. Your perfect man must be a good person, a father figure for your future children. Remove good-looking, rich, intelligent, and more from your stupid list. Write a new and realistic list! Number 1 on your list should be – a man who treats me with respect.

Let it go

Don’t be obsessed with the fact that you are single.
Ultimately, you will understand that the secret to happiness is not about control. Trust yourself and let things come naturally while learning from experience over time.
Remember that you deserve the best and that one day, the good that you seek for yourself will reach your life.

Good Luck!

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